Transcend it all

There are opportunities abound in your everyday life which when viewed through the mind appear to be fronts to you personally. Lets look at minor disagreements. Sometimes you will meet someone who shows you their inner pain through their actions towards you or just in reality in general. It may not be directed at you personally however the mind would like you to take this personally. Questioning why is this person hurting me with their words or actions, why am I the victim here. When experiencing this through the lens of your higher power, the big S of Self. A transformation happens. You begin to realise that most actions by others are in fact blessings, they come to teach us compassion and to respond not to react to the situation in hand. This is a truly beautiful transformation. Suddenly or gradually you will not see others behaviour as a threat any more. You will be able to stand alongside them and experience it with them without becoming attached to an outcome. You will be able to sooth them through your own self soothing. People blossom from this they themselves become more compassionate, they become more forgiving as you are. They act as a reflection of what you are. You will see this all around you if you can be present with others in their struggles with their small s Ego produced sense of self.